How to deal with a difficult Manager

Difficult ManagerIf you are working for someone, chances are you came across a Manager or Boss who is difficult to manager and hard to please.

Tips on how to deal with a difficult manager:

1. Check yourself. Take an introspective look and explore whether the problem lies within yourself. Ask yourself, ‘what have I done wrong, why does this supervisor feel that I don’t have a good relationship with him? My attitude – am I doing something wrong and is there anything I can do better?’. The key here is to control your attitude because if you get cynical, it’s only going to get worse.

Managers have different management styles and sometimes the employee has to make an adjustment in his or her attitude to match that. There’s not much in government and life you can control. But one thing you can control is your attitude. If you’re going to walk around complaining, complaining, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. That’s why controlling your attitude is crucial.

2. Manage your boss. Getting a better feel for who your boss is and what makes him or her tick is key in building a better relationship. Bosses are under a lot of stress and a lot of pressure and they lash out because they feel they’re not getting support from their employees. Getting to understand your supervisor and making yourself valuable is an excellent way of changing the dynamics and the relationship between the two of you.

In a sense, you want to be a collaborator. The more you collaborate with your supervisor, the more you’re showing your supervisor creativity, the more they’ll see that you’re valuable. And the more they see you as valuable, the better the relationship is going to be.

3. Quit your job. Sometimes it comes to just that: You need to leave. You don’t always have to sit and take it. If you have been in a bad situation for a number of years and you’ve tried everything, maybe it’s time to look for another job. If you look in the mirror and look at yourself, you can make adjustments. You can also weigh your options carefully — talk to your mentors and people you trust to get a balanced perspective. And from there, you plot your strategy.

Most importantly, never let anyone make you cynical. Once you’ve become cynical, you lose your credibility, your zest, your enthusiasm for why you came to work, and it will affect every part of your life.

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